I’m a Shade Above Excellent

I’m a Shade Above Excellent

I know. I’ve been quiet lately. I went through a bit of heartbreak – which I’ll tell you about..but, I wanted to let everyone know that today – I’m a shade above excellent. After a few clients commented that they were happy to hear that...
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Conscious Arguing 4: Solve the Fight That Hasn’t Happened

Conscious Arguing 4: Solve the Fight That Hasn’t Happened

  So the smoke has cleared from the fight with a person you love. You’ve lived through the energy of a fight, you’ve opened your heart during the fight, and you’ve stopped the fight in its tracks. (And if you haven’t done those things, click on those links and learn...
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I Want Things to be Different. Grief Sucks.

I Want Things to be Different. Grief Sucks.

No one wants to feel grief. It’s a real bitch. Yet, it’s an experience we must have as humans. It feels pervasive these days. The election brought it to the forefront of society. And my own disintegration of my romantic relationship has brought it to the...
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The Color Of Carnage

The Color Of Carnage

Truth can be painful. Truth requires the strongest courage. Sometimes I write to tell a story. Always I write to seek out my truth. Because for me, writing is spiritual – in the way that embracing a painful truth is spiritual. I write to explore, to find truth,...
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When a Friend Says that ONE Thing

When a Friend Says that ONE Thing

I think I have a great relationship. All things considered and compared, I know I do. But yesterday, one of my dearest friends blew the coconut milk out of my hot chocolate with one statement: “You and Mark don’t work together like a couple, because each...
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This Saved My Life

This Saved My Life

I was married. He was an alcoholic. I was teaching public school. He was drinking himself to sleep. I got a new job with the bank. He worked less and less. My life felt wrong. Then I saw this Story People print by Brian Andreas at The Bag Lady on Kenilworth Avenue. I...
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