Conscious Arguing #3 – How to Stop the Fight

Conscious Arguing #3 – How to Stop the Fight

Arguing and fighting with people we love totally sucks. But it’s going to happen, and it helps to understand it. In the previous posts, we learned what the energy of a fight looks like and how to open our heart during a fight.  Sometimes, we recognize we’re in a...
Conscious Arguing #2: How to Open Your Heart In a Fight

Conscious Arguing #2: How to Open Your Heart In a Fight

Have you ever had an argument with someone? An argument where your full warrior-self came out and felt desperate to have this person see your point and hear where you’re coming from, because you knew if they did, then you’d feel so much better and could...
Conscious Arguing #1: What Does the Energy of a Fight Look Like?

Conscious Arguing #1: What Does the Energy of a Fight Look Like?

Mercury in Retrograde is already showing itself even though the exact dates of retro are May 19th, 2015-June 11th, 2015.  In honor of Mercury Retrograde and its joy in wreaking havoc in our communications and relationships, this entry will help explain what our energy...
A Love Letter To My Man

A Love Letter To My Man

“If falling in love is anything like learning how to spell, I don’t want to do it. It takes too long.” — Glenn, age 7 This quote was in an Elephant Journal article titled Advice on Love from Children. And seriously, these kids nailed it – like this one: “Spend most of...
What’s the use of Incompatibility?

What’s the use of Incompatibility?

The other day I heard someone say that, in relationships, we are always attracted to a person with whom we’re incompatible.  “Oh no,” I thought, “That can’t be true.”  I pondered over my own relationship: he’s a mountain man,...
Relating by Communicating

Relating by Communicating

Last week I was on my way back home from my boyfriend’s house, driving peacefully down Fairview Rd., when this new black Camaro beside me started swerving over into my lane.  I braked and studied the energy and the driving to see if he was driving drunk or just being...