One reason that we can feel stress when interacting with our parents is that no matter how old we are, we naturally revert back to feeling like a child. We can be a 50-year-old badass, in-charge, successful adult, but when we are in the presence of our parents, we resort to the little child who desires our parents' approval, the little girl who wants to be nurtured, or the little boy that longs to please. How do we retain our adult identities in the presence of our parents?
When you're spending time with your relatives during the holiday season, your energy will naturally drop lower so you can connect and harmonize. You see, a lot of people think that it's the turkey that makes them tired. It ain't the turkey! When we are tired and grumpy, chances are we're vibrating at a lower place than we're used to. What does that all mean? Why does it happen, and more importantly, how can you counteract this? With awareness, a tiny bit of time, and a little kick of caffeine. I'll break it down in simple steps.
I am in deep gratitude for having someone step up and tell me the truth of what was holding me back.
“Your reading/healing was so awe inspiring. Not only were you TOTALLY right, half an hour after I left you my knee stopped hurting and has not hurt since. I have been thinking on what you said and realize I do need to participate in my own direction. I am going to meditate on what I have already thought about since we met and try to form a blueprint, a flexible blueprint for the Universe. My fear of being wrong was holding me back; I see that now. I am in deep gratitude for having someone step up and tell me the truth of what was holding me back. Thank you. Really, thank you.”
B. – Charlotte NC
The information you gave me was incredibly freeing in order to write the parts that had me stymied as to how I would/could handle it.
“At yesterday’s gathering, I was asked about the reading and others were interested in how impressed I was at the answers that came for me. To me that is what a reading should give – answers – but I must admit I asked for the reading with no preconceived notion of what I needed, wanted or would receive from it. I didn’t even know I had questions that could be addressed in a reading! The information you gave me was incredibly freeing in order to write the parts that had me stymied as to how I would/could handle it. Those stumbling blocks are gone now – and in fact the emotional barb connected has been removed. I find it most amazing – and joyous.”
K.B. – Troutman, NC